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		<title>By: FireTag</title>
		<link>http://saintsherald.com/2009/06/06/sexual-policy-and-the-church/#comment-658</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 16:50:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The church has posted an announcement at the following link on its website:

&quot;http://www.cofchrist.org/wc2010/legislation/default.asp&quot;

The substance of the announcement is that legislation is coming to the 2010 world conference that will only be published in the Saint&#039;s Herald magazine or shared by email with local leaders because its open discussion would endanger leaders and members of the church.

I will obey the spirit of this announcement and let those with access to the written Saint&#039;s Herald read the legislation for themselves.

But I will ask two questions. 

1)Which group of my brothers and sisters am I supposed to sacrifice to keep this &quot;NOT-the-one-and-only-true-church&quot; together -- the one that will suffer if there is discussion, or the one that will suffer if there is not?

2)How do we learn how to discuss divisive issues if part of what divides us is that many of us would have to have the discussion hidden?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The church has posted an announcement at the following link on its website:</p>
<p>&#8220;http://www.cofchrist.org/wc2010/legislation/default.asp&#8221;</p>
<p>The substance of the announcement is that legislation is coming to the 2010 world conference that will only be published in the Saint&#8217;s Herald magazine or shared by email with local leaders because its open discussion would endanger leaders and members of the church.</p>
<p>I will obey the spirit of this announcement and let those with access to the written Saint&#8217;s Herald read the legislation for themselves.</p>
<p>But I will ask two questions. </p>
<p>1)Which group of my brothers and sisters am I supposed to sacrifice to keep this &#8220;NOT-the-one-and-only-true-church&#8221; together &#8212; the one that will suffer if there is discussion, or the one that will suffer if there is not?</p>
<p>2)How do we learn how to discuss divisive issues if part of what divides us is that many of us would have to have the discussion hidden?</p>
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		<title>By: a reckoning in progress&#8230;. &#171; becoming visible</title>
		<link>http://saintsherald.com/2009/06/06/sexual-policy-and-the-church/#comment-624</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[a reckoning in progress&#8230;. &#171; becoming visible]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 18:41:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...]    Recent events in my denomination have me pondering, trying desperately not to react out of the emotions of anger [...]]]></description>
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		<title>By: Margie Miller</title>
		<link>http://saintsherald.com/2009/06/06/sexual-policy-and-the-church/#comment-478</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Margie Miller]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 21:46:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;People today usually think about male and female as two kinds of the same thing. There’s one thing, the human being, and it comes in two types, male and female. There are problems with this understanding, as we ourselves sometimes admit. There are hermaphrodites, for example. But basically, this is how we see it. It is not, however, how people in antiquity saw it. For them, male and female were not two kinds of human being, they were two degrees of human being. Women, in fact, were imperfect men.

The way to make sense of the ancient understanding is to imagine all living creatures on a kind of continuum. At the far left of the spectrum are plants, to the right of them are animals, and to the right of (other) animals are humans There are different degrees of intelligence and perfection among animals: slugs might be on the left of the continuum and chimpanzees might be further along. So it is among humans as well. Children and slaves are not perfect, as they have not reached the level of the men. Women are not perfect, as they have not reached the level of the men. The male body is the perfect ideal. Moving along the continuum, beyond humans altogether, are other living beings, the gods, who are in fact, superhuman, the very pinnacle of living existence.

The goal of humans is to become like the gods, and that requires movement along the continuum. Men have to transcend their mortal limitations. For women to transcend theirs, they first have to move along the continuum through the place occupied by men. For a woman to have life, she must first become a male.

Women then, were imperfect humans, or as some authors would have it, imperfect men. Many ancients held this view in quite literal terms: women were men who had never developed. Their appendages hadn’t developed and what they had was an inverted appendage that never emerged; their muscles hadn’t fully developed; their lungs hadn’t matured; their voices hadn’t deepened; their facial hair hadn’t appeared. Women were men who hadn’t yet reached perfection.

To go off on a bit of a digression for a moment, that is the reason that some ancient texts are opposed to certain same sex relationships. The problem with such relationships in Greek and Roman antiquity was not that it was unnatural for two people of the same gender to have physical intimacy, as some people today feel. The problem had to do with the ancient ideology of dominance as it relates to understanding of the genders.

In the Greco-Roman world, dominance was a firmly held and seldom questioned ideal. It was simply common sense that human relationships were organized around power. Those who were more powerful were supposed to dominate those who were less powerful. Thus one empire could destroy another with impunity. They had no particular qualms about it. The stronger could and should dominate the weaker. Masters had complete control over slaves. Parents had total dominance over children. Men could and should assert their power over women, who were literally the weaker sex..

This ideology of power affected not only military and political ideology but also personal and sexual relations. Free men were made to be dominant. Modern people have trouble understanding how the ancient Greeks could accept pederasty, where an adult man took a preadolescent boy as a lover. In this system, the man could inculcate moral and cultural values into the boy, teaching him the ways of society and politics, in exchange for sexual favors. But wasn’t that “unnatural”? Not at all. In fact, Greeks talk about it as the most natural thing in the world. The reason is not hard to find once you understand the ideology of dominance. Boys were imperfect men. The more perfect was to dominate the less perfect. It was natural for a free man to have sex with a young boy. And that’s why pederasty applied only to preadolescent youths. Once a boy reached puberty, he started attaining his manhood and from that point on it was a shameful thing to be dominated by someone else, since men were to be the dominators not dominated.

That is also why in the ancient world it was widely acceptable for a free man to have sex with his slaves, whether male or female. He was dominant over them. What about when two free men had sex, though, wasn’t that unnatural? As it turns out, most ancient people thought that’ same sex relations between men was unnatural for only one of the two involved, the one that was on the receiving end of the sex act. Since the “unnaturalness” of sex involved being dominated by someone when you were to be the dominator, then only the dominated partner acted unnaturally. So when Julius Caesar was known to have been involved in a sexual relationship with the king of Galatia and was suspected of having been himself the submissive partner in the relationship, his troops composed humorous little ditties making fun of him for it. The king of Galatia hadn’t done anything immoral or unnatural, though. He had acted like a man.

When ancient texts, therefore, condemn same sex relations, it is important to understand what it is they’re condemning. They are condemning a man for acting like a member of the weaker sex, or a woman for acting like a member of the stronger sex.&quot; 

Bart Ehrman&#039;s remarks..]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;People today usually think about male and female as two kinds of the same thing. There’s one thing, the human being, and it comes in two types, male and female. There are problems with this understanding, as we ourselves sometimes admit. There are hermaphrodites, for example. But basically, this is how we see it. It is not, however, how people in antiquity saw it. For them, male and female were not two kinds of human being, they were two degrees of human being. Women, in fact, were imperfect men.</p>
<p>The way to make sense of the ancient understanding is to imagine all living creatures on a kind of continuum. At the far left of the spectrum are plants, to the right of them are animals, and to the right of (other) animals are humans There are different degrees of intelligence and perfection among animals: slugs might be on the left of the continuum and chimpanzees might be further along. So it is among humans as well. Children and slaves are not perfect, as they have not reached the level of the men. Women are not perfect, as they have not reached the level of the men. The male body is the perfect ideal. Moving along the continuum, beyond humans altogether, are other living beings, the gods, who are in fact, superhuman, the very pinnacle of living existence.</p>
<p>The goal of humans is to become like the gods, and that requires movement along the continuum. Men have to transcend their mortal limitations. For women to transcend theirs, they first have to move along the continuum through the place occupied by men. For a woman to have life, she must first become a male.</p>
<p>Women then, were imperfect humans, or as some authors would have it, imperfect men. Many ancients held this view in quite literal terms: women were men who had never developed. Their appendages hadn’t developed and what they had was an inverted appendage that never emerged; their muscles hadn’t fully developed; their lungs hadn’t matured; their voices hadn’t deepened; their facial hair hadn’t appeared. Women were men who hadn’t yet reached perfection.</p>
<p>To go off on a bit of a digression for a moment, that is the reason that some ancient texts are opposed to certain same sex relationships. The problem with such relationships in Greek and Roman antiquity was not that it was unnatural for two people of the same gender to have physical intimacy, as some people today feel. The problem had to do with the ancient ideology of dominance as it relates to understanding of the genders.</p>
<p>In the Greco-Roman world, dominance was a firmly held and seldom questioned ideal. It was simply common sense that human relationships were organized around power. Those who were more powerful were supposed to dominate those who were less powerful. Thus one empire could destroy another with impunity. They had no particular qualms about it. The stronger could and should dominate the weaker. Masters had complete control over slaves. Parents had total dominance over children. Men could and should assert their power over women, who were literally the weaker sex..</p>
<p>This ideology of power affected not only military and political ideology but also personal and sexual relations. Free men were made to be dominant. Modern people have trouble understanding how the ancient Greeks could accept pederasty, where an adult man took a preadolescent boy as a lover. In this system, the man could inculcate moral and cultural values into the boy, teaching him the ways of society and politics, in exchange for sexual favors. But wasn’t that “unnatural”? Not at all. In fact, Greeks talk about it as the most natural thing in the world. The reason is not hard to find once you understand the ideology of dominance. Boys were imperfect men. The more perfect was to dominate the less perfect. It was natural for a free man to have sex with a young boy. And that’s why pederasty applied only to preadolescent youths. Once a boy reached puberty, he started attaining his manhood and from that point on it was a shameful thing to be dominated by someone else, since men were to be the dominators not dominated.</p>
<p>That is also why in the ancient world it was widely acceptable for a free man to have sex with his slaves, whether male or female. He was dominant over them. What about when two free men had sex, though, wasn’t that unnatural? As it turns out, most ancient people thought that’ same sex relations between men was unnatural for only one of the two involved, the one that was on the receiving end of the sex act. Since the “unnaturalness” of sex involved being dominated by someone when you were to be the dominator, then only the dominated partner acted unnaturally. So when Julius Caesar was known to have been involved in a sexual relationship with the king of Galatia and was suspected of having been himself the submissive partner in the relationship, his troops composed humorous little ditties making fun of him for it. The king of Galatia hadn’t done anything immoral or unnatural, though. He had acted like a man.</p>
<p>When ancient texts, therefore, condemn same sex relations, it is important to understand what it is they’re condemning. They are condemning a man for acting like a member of the weaker sex, or a woman for acting like a member of the stronger sex.&#8221; </p>
<p>Bart Ehrman&#8217;s remarks..</p>
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		<title>By: FireTag</title>
		<link>http://saintsherald.com/2009/06/06/sexual-policy-and-the-church/#comment-434</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[FireTag]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 17:46:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[George:

I cannot tell if your third paragraph is meant seriously or sarcastically. It&#039;s so high in the list of comments I can&#039;t tell even if you&#039;ve read the deep and sincere discussion that has gone on in the entire thread. I will treat it as serious and assume you have read the entire thread.

It really is not in the power of gays either to save or burn the Community of Christ. It is also not in the power of the denomination to deny them the opportunity to claim the things of the gospel that they find precious for themselves. That is exactly like saying that the Restoration movement must give up the right to an open canon of scripture or abandon the New Testament. So perhaps in the interests of unity and peace, we should all convert to Catholicism.
Or perhaps that isn&#039;t far enough; if we give up Christ for peace and unity, we can ask the Jews to accept us back into Judaism.

It is possible that God regulates His dealings with humanity through a faith community, but our leadership will NOT assert that the boundaries of that faith community coincide with the boundaries of our denomination. It will therefore find it difficult to sustain the argument that no one has the right to expand the boundaries of the faith community without the permission of existing denominations -- since we come from a long line of denominations that did EXACTLY that. God will judge; not man.

You may well be right that it is less expensive in human costs for gays to find direct connections to God outside the denomination than to cause their conservative brethers and sisters, both in the West and in the emerging fields of the denomination, pain or risk over this issue. If so, then send them with prayers for God&#039;s blessings, or be willing to bear their pain yourself.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>George:</p>
<p>I cannot tell if your third paragraph is meant seriously or sarcastically. It&#8217;s so high in the list of comments I can&#8217;t tell even if you&#8217;ve read the deep and sincere discussion that has gone on in the entire thread. I will treat it as serious and assume you have read the entire thread.</p>
<p>It really is not in the power of gays either to save or burn the Community of Christ. It is also not in the power of the denomination to deny them the opportunity to claim the things of the gospel that they find precious for themselves. That is exactly like saying that the Restoration movement must give up the right to an open canon of scripture or abandon the New Testament. So perhaps in the interests of unity and peace, we should all convert to Catholicism.<br />
Or perhaps that isn&#8217;t far enough; if we give up Christ for peace and unity, we can ask the Jews to accept us back into Judaism.</p>
<p>It is possible that God regulates His dealings with humanity through a faith community, but our leadership will NOT assert that the boundaries of that faith community coincide with the boundaries of our denomination. It will therefore find it difficult to sustain the argument that no one has the right to expand the boundaries of the faith community without the permission of existing denominations &#8212; since we come from a long line of denominations that did EXACTLY that. God will judge; not man.</p>
<p>You may well be right that it is less expensive in human costs for gays to find direct connections to God outside the denomination than to cause their conservative brethers and sisters, both in the West and in the emerging fields of the denomination, pain or risk over this issue. If so, then send them with prayers for God&#8217;s blessings, or be willing to bear their pain yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: bewarethechicken</title>
		<link>http://saintsherald.com/2009/06/06/sexual-policy-and-the-church/#comment-433</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[bewarethechicken]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 14:27:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#039;s impossible that the MCC or the UU accept homosexuality.  For they are Christian institutions and there is nothing in Christianity as known for the last 2,000 years that permits the official church santion of homosexual practices.  You must be mistaken.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s impossible that the MCC or the UU accept homosexuality.  For they are Christian institutions and there is nothing in Christianity as known for the last 2,000 years that permits the official church santion of homosexual practices.  You must be mistaken.</p>
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		<title>By: George</title>
		<link>http://saintsherald.com/2009/06/06/sexual-policy-and-the-church/#comment-432</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[George]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 12:06:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think the best way to summarize the progay argument in the face of the clear historic teachings of Christianity would be to compare it to the Vietnam-era philosophy that sometimes one must &quot;destroy the village in order to save it.&quot;

There is nothing in Christianity as known for the last 2,000 years that permits the official church sanction of homosexual practices. Of course, the Lt. Calley&#039;s among us are determined to destroy the village if they have to.

How about this? Why not start a new village? If it&#039;s really better, then everyone, including the inhabitants of the other village, will come and join you. But, then again, there are already a few of those villages, such as the Metropolitan Community Churches, and the Unitarian Univeralists.

George]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the best way to summarize the progay argument in the face of the clear historic teachings of Christianity would be to compare it to the Vietnam-era philosophy that sometimes one must &#8220;destroy the village in order to save it.&#8221;</p>
<p>There is nothing in Christianity as known for the last 2,000 years that permits the official church sanction of homosexual practices. Of course, the Lt. Calley&#8217;s among us are determined to destroy the village if they have to.</p>
<p>How about this? Why not start a new village? If it&#8217;s really better, then everyone, including the inhabitants of the other village, will come and join you. But, then again, there are already a few of those villages, such as the Metropolitan Community Churches, and the Unitarian Univeralists.</p>
<p>George</p>
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		<title>By: Doug Gregory</title>
		<link>http://saintsherald.com/2009/06/06/sexual-policy-and-the-church/#comment-407</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug Gregory]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 00:30:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wish I could tell you differently...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish I could tell you differently&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: bewarethechicken</title>
		<link>http://saintsherald.com/2009/06/06/sexual-policy-and-the-church/#comment-403</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[bewarethechicken]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 13:54:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have spoken to them about these concerns.  I have written them.  I have e-mailed them.  About two dozen times over the last decade.

The really, really understand my concerns and absolutely, definitely will include my comments in their internal discussions.

And I am not concerened that the dialogue is occurring on in private - I&#039;m concerned it&#039;s not happening at all.  I know many people who work at the church, including those on the SHC and Council of Twelve.  None have been able to tell me of a single discussion any have had on a formal level about changing policy. If you have different information, I&#039;d be happy to hear about it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have spoken to them about these concerns.  I have written them.  I have e-mailed them.  About two dozen times over the last decade.</p>
<p>The really, really understand my concerns and absolutely, definitely will include my comments in their internal discussions.</p>
<p>And I am not concerened that the dialogue is occurring on in private &#8211; I&#8217;m concerned it&#8217;s not happening at all.  I know many people who work at the church, including those on the SHC and Council of Twelve.  None have been able to tell me of a single discussion any have had on a formal level about changing policy. If you have different information, I&#8217;d be happy to hear about it.</p>
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		<title>By: Doug Gregory</title>
		<link>http://saintsherald.com/2009/06/06/sexual-policy-and-the-church/#comment-402</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug Gregory]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 13:45:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[BTC, have you spoken with them about your concerns that all the dialog seems to be in private and not in public?  Perhaps they are looking for a way to format the discussion that is reasoned and analytical and formative without being directional?  I have no problem calling either Steve or Dave to discuss one-on-one where this discussion is going (although the conversation would of necessity need to remain private).  I&#039;m sure other could do likewise...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BTC, have you spoken with them about your concerns that all the dialog seems to be in private and not in public?  Perhaps they are looking for a way to format the discussion that is reasoned and analytical and formative without being directional?  I have no problem calling either Steve or Dave to discuss one-on-one where this discussion is going (although the conversation would of necessity need to remain private).  I&#8217;m sure other could do likewise&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: bewarethechicken</title>
		<link>http://saintsherald.com/2009/06/06/sexual-policy-and-the-church/#comment-400</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[bewarethechicken]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 13:13:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[While I hate to break the nice even 100 comments, I note that I got the Herald today and - sure enough, notwithstanding the President&#039;s policy statement, followed by Graceland&#039;s issues, and continuing promises of dialogue, not a single mention of homosexuality.  Not a single letter to the Herald.

Odd too, because I know many many people who wrote leters to the Herald concerning recent events.  Also, it seems no one in the church was interested enough in the President&#039;s statements on polygamy last Herald.  I thought that would have garnered some interest, but apparently not.

Ahhh, the First Presidency&#039;s commitment to dialogue continues.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While I hate to break the nice even 100 comments, I note that I got the Herald today and &#8211; sure enough, notwithstanding the President&#8217;s policy statement, followed by Graceland&#8217;s issues, and continuing promises of dialogue, not a single mention of homosexuality.  Not a single letter to the Herald.</p>
<p>Odd too, because I know many many people who wrote leters to the Herald concerning recent events.  Also, it seems no one in the church was interested enough in the President&#8217;s statements on polygamy last Herald.  I thought that would have garnered some interest, but apparently not.</p>
<p>Ahhh, the First Presidency&#8217;s commitment to dialogue continues.</p>
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